AI can make a romance scam look and sound more convincing, but the warning that matters most is still what the person asks you to do. A stranger who builds intimacy, then requests money, financial access, or help moving funds, may be using a familiar scam with newer tools. A polished profile, realistic voice message, or video call does not verify someone’s identity.
What makes an AI-powered romance scam different?
A romance scam uses a false online identity to gain affection and trust, then manipulates the target for money or other value. Generative AI can help scammers create plausible profile material and produce persuasive, personalized messages more quickly. The FBI says criminals use AI chat generators to build fake profiles and scripts; its San Francisco office also describes realistic AI-generated photos, video, and voice messages.
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That can make deception easier to scale and harder to judge by appearance or writing style. It does not change the underlying pattern: build trust, create emotional dependence, and then introduce a financial request. Nor does it mean every scammer uses AI or every suspicious call or image is synthetic.
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A convincing photo, fluent conversation, affectionate message, or apparently live video can make a profile feel authentic. None independently establishes who is on the other side. AI can help generate or tailor material, while non-AI scammers can also use stolen photos and rehearsed stories. Treat media as a reason to continue asking questions, not as identity verification.
Photo searches and checks for consistency across profile details can reveal reuse or contradictions, but they cannot prove a person’s identity. Likewise, the agency guidance cited here does not establish that an AI-detection tool can reliably identify a romance scammer. Avoid giving a technical test more authority than it can support.
What the reported losses do—and do not—show
The FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center’s 2025 report, published in 2026, says victims lost more than $19 million to confidence/romance scams with a likely AI nexus. That qualified figure is not a complete count of all AI-involved romance fraud, and it is not the total loss from romance scams.
The same report records more than 22,000 AI-related complaints and more than $893 million in adjusted losses across fraud types. Those totals are not specific to romance scams. Separately, FBI Chicago reported that the IC3 received 17,910 romance-scam reports with $672,009,052 in reported losses for 2024. These figures cover different years and populations, so they should not be treated as a direct comparison or combined into one trend.
Behavioral warning signs to take seriously
Look for the relationship between the person’s behavior and their request, rather than trying to identify AI by sight or sound. The FBI and FTC identify patterns such as:
- Declaring intense affection quickly or pressing for a serious relationship before you have met.
- Repeatedly canceling plans or avoiding an in-person meeting while keeping the relationship going online.
- Pressuring you to leave the dating or social platform, keep the relationship secret, or pull away from friends and family.
- Introducing an emergency, investment opportunity, or other story that leads to a request for money.
- Asking for cryptocurrency, gift cards, a wire transfer, payment-app transfers, account details, or other financial information.
- Asking to use your bank account to receive or move money. This may be an attempt to use you as a money mule.
The FBI San Francisco’s Special Agent in Charge Sanjay Virmani put the central warning plainly: “If someone you’ve never met in person asks you for money, cryptocurrency or investment help, it is a red flag – no matter how convincing the story or connection may seem.”
How to check concerns without relying on an AI detector
- Slow the conversation down. If affection comes with urgency, secrecy, or a financial request, pause rather than responding under pressure.
- Check details independently. Search the person’s photo and profile information online for reuse, ask questions, and look for consistency over time. These checks can raise concerns; they are not proof of identity.
- Keep the relationship in view of people you trust. Tell a friend or family member what is happening. Treat pressure to hide the relationship or a money request as a warning sign.
- Do not treat a call as verification. A video call or voice message may seem persuasive, but it is not a reliable substitute for independently verifying who someone is and what they are asking you to do.
- Protect personal information. Limit what you share publicly, and do not provide account details, intimate material, or packages for someone whose identity and circumstances you cannot independently verify.
What to do if money enters the relationship
The FTC’s consumer guidance asks: “Did a new friend or love interest you met online suddenly ask you for money?” Its advice is not to send money to an online love interest—especially by cryptocurrency, gift card, wire transfer, or payment app. An emergency story or a request for investment help can be a pivot from romance to financial fraud.
Quick Recap
- Do not pay or move money. Do not share financial credentials or let the person use your account to receive or transfer funds.
- End contact if you suspect fraud. Do not continue negotiating or try to recover money by sending more.
- Report the profile. Use the dating or social platform’s reporting tools.
- Report the suspected fraud. File a report with the FTC or the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3).
- If you already sent funds, contact your financial institution promptly. Use a phone number or contact method you know is official, and explain what happened.
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